Wedding Planning in New York & destinations

Bespoke luxury Wedding Planning

No two weddings begin the same way, but each one starts with the same question: What must this day say?


Your wedding must Feel like you

You’re integrating careers, relationships,
and life’s pace.

Before I visit a venue, contact a vendor, or start a timeline, I ask one question: ‘What must this day say?’ Your answer is the foundation. Everything happens from that point.


Our Wedding Planning Packages

Every call begins with the Foundation Session, a conversation about what your day must say. This is the most important planning conversation. Your answer will lead you to the best package for you, your day, and your vision.

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A woman in a white dress and hat holding a bouquet of roses smiles as a man in a tuxedo drinks from a glass, sharing a joyful moment at a social gathering.

Package 01 ~ Joy

The Freedom to Shape What Matters

Everything begins with one question: ‘What must his day say?’

Joy is for the bride who wants to stay connected to the meaning of her wedding without carrying the weight of managing it. I provide the structure and guidance to keep everything clear, aligned, and moving forward.

What You’ll Gain

Clarity for every decision

Ability to stay involved without becoming overwhelmed

Expert guidance that supports without taking over

Planning experience that feels structured, not consuming

Confidence that every detail is carried with intention

Nothing is lost between your vision and your guests’ experience

Perfect For

The bride who wants to be involved while relying on a trusted expert to organize, guide, and protect every decision. She is looking for the one person she can trust with the answer to the one question.

The Experience

Stay connected to what matters

I protect the vision

Features

Guided full planning partnership

Aligned venue and vendor sourcing

Planning and wedding day timeline development

Investment tracking and due date management

Venue walkthrough

Guest experience, travel & accommodations, guidance

Inclusions

RSVP management

Bi-weekly Zoom calls

Key In-person meetings

Wedding day execution

Investment begins at: $8,000

Package 02 ~ LUXE

Complete Trust, Vision Fully Carried

Everything begins with one question: ‘What must his day say?’

Luxe is for the bride who wants to remain the visionary, while entrusting the planning, decisions, and execution to someone who will carry it out fully. I lead the process with precision, discretion, and complete control.

What You’ll Gain

Time back for your life, career, and relationship

Freedom from decision fatigue without losing creative direction

Fully managed planning process

Curated vendor team aligned to your vision

Confidence that every element is handled before it reaches you

Perfect For

The bride who values involvement in the vision but expects a professional to lead, manage, and execute at the highest level. She is looking for the one person she can trust to completely carry her vision.

The Experience

You define the vision and see it executed

Rest easy, as nothing has been left to chance

Features

Full planning and management

Budget stewardship and allocation oversight

Contract oversight and vendor direction

Comprehensive timelines and execution planning

Welcome party and rehearsal coordination

Inclusions

Full RSVP and seating management

Complete vendor management

Ongoing planning meetings

Wedding day execution

Investment begins at: $15,000

Package 03 ~ DESTINATION LOVE

Meaningful, Wherever It Takes You

Everything begins with one question: ‘What must his day say?’

Destination Love is designed for the bride who wants to celebrate somewhere meaningful, without carrying the complexity of planning across distance. From travel logistics to guest experience, I anticipate, structure, and manage every element for effortless experiences from arrival to the final moment.

What You’ll Gain

Confidence navigating location, logistics, and vendor selection

Seamless experience for you and your guests

Vision that remains intact across every decision

Freedom to enjoy the experience without managing remotely

A partner operating with precision

Perfect For

The bride who wants an elevated destination experience handled with the same care, structure, and oversight as a local event. She is looking for the one person she can trust, anywhere.

The Experience

Celebrate where it matters most with confidence

Nothing overlooked, wherever you choose to say I do

Features

Destination sourcing or execution at the pre-selected location

Design direction anchored to your answer to the one question

Travel and accommodation coordination

Vendor and logistics management

Multi-day event planning

Inclusions

Welcome event planning

Proactive communication cadence

Planning meetings

Wedding day execution

Preserving your vision and executing it as intended.

Investment begins at: $30,000
*Travel and accommodation are additional

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Why Choose renaymeshell events

foundation before glamour

Every decision starts from your answer to the question ‘What must this day say?’

nothing overlooked

Meticulous care and attention, built from years of operating in spaces with low to zero margins for error.

I invest me

You are getting someone who holds your day the way I hold everything that matters, with full attention and nothing left to chance.

new york roots, global reach

Local knowledge, destination visions.

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vision, Time, Execution and Excellence

ready for your luxury wedding?

You already know how you want this day to feel, or you may still be thinking.  No matter where you stand, you need someone who will carry that feeling, keep it in focus, and build from it.  I will build, and you rest easy, confident that nothing is overlooked.

Detailed pricing provided upon inquiry to ensure your investment aligns with your vision.

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What clients are saying

Thank you so much for all the work and coordination you did … to make our wedding ceremony beautiful and run smoothly!”

— MR. & MRS. PAXTON

A wedding planner is invaluable when doing a destination wedding.

— MR. & MRS. A


frequently asked Questions


Why do you charge a flat rate as the starting investment?

The investment aligns with the details involved in delivering the vision based on the package selected. There are times, although rare, when the vision is outside the scope of the package, requiring additional sourcing and time.


Is it possible to plan a wedding in less than 12 months?

Yes, planning a wedding in less than 12 months is possible.  The feasibility and reality lie in your available time, focused attention, and dedication to making concerted, immediate decisions.


Do you offer custom services?

Yes.  If your vision falls outside the scope of the listed packages, we can discuss it during a 20-minute discovery call.  Click here to schedule a time that fits your availability.


The foundation-FirsT wedding guide

Within the four pages of this guide, you’ll answer questions that lead you to answer, ‘What must this day say?’ Then use your answer to evaluate vendors, the venue, and every decision for your wedding day.

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